guitarjamman
Junior Member
And it is debilitating at times (afterthought of reading a forum on AGF). My personality can get the better of me and hold me back from playing in front of people. In college, I was in a band with a buddy and we worked through several songs in our dorm – came time to play at an open mic and I came down with a “blue flu”, couldn’t manage to get up there and play.
I have been playing in a new band (just me and another guy) and we got a good number of songs down pat. I play lead acoustic guitar so there is no real way for me to sit in the back and just relax with the groove. I guess I am looking for words of encouragement from you seasoned guys on how you initial got over the stage fright? I know that it is not a competition; I get uncomfortable when I see people who are playing and are nervous; kind of feel bad for them. I do not want this to be the case with me when we play out….
The only people I have played in front of would be my wife, jam buddy from school, this new guy, and the guy who walks into the acoustic room at GC and hears a bit before I notice him and stop playing.
I have been playing in a new band (just me and another guy) and we got a good number of songs down pat. I play lead acoustic guitar so there is no real way for me to sit in the back and just relax with the groove. I guess I am looking for words of encouragement from you seasoned guys on how you initial got over the stage fright? I know that it is not a competition; I get uncomfortable when I see people who are playing and are nervous; kind of feel bad for them. I do not want this to be the case with me when we play out….
The only people I have played in front of would be my wife, jam buddy from school, this new guy, and the guy who walks into the acoustic room at GC and hears a bit before I notice him and stop playing.