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refret

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They say god only gives one as much as they can handle.
let's see, so far this fall,
Hernia correction surgery a week ago Monday,
Heater died on Friday.
Sunday morning the heater salesman handed me a bill for 10K for a new system.
Phone rings immediately after, my stepfather having a life saving lung operation went into cardiac arrest on the table and they couldn't bring him back.
My mom in NH lives all by herself and had no financial involvement in their day to day lives.
I am it, no siblings.
Off to NH next week if I am cleared to travel today to try and get everything straightened out.
Pray for me.......please.
 

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So sorry to hear this, sir. My prayers with you. Jon
 

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Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this trying time. I understand where you are coming from and the only advice I can give is to tackle it one situation at a time. Eventually there will be some light at the end of the tunnel. So sorry for you and your family's loss. Hoping for the best possible outcome for you and your family. Stay strong and steady as she goes.

TX
 

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You got it Refret.
Wish I was out in NH visiting my folks, i could help out. they are outside of Concord.
I will be out there over christmas holiday, PM me if you are there and need help or just want to play.
 

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You're on my prayer list. Take care of yourself, my friend!
 

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Sometimes a get the feeling that God overdoes it just a bit and loads way too much onto one persons back. Sounds like that may be the case here. But, it sounds like you're it for your Mother. I have a sense that you'll figure it all out and things will be taken care of properly. That is my sincere wish for you and your Mother.
 

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Will do Refret. That's a bunch to deal with.

Bob
 

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You're in my thoughts. Baby steps and day by day my friend...
 

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So sorry about your troubles. What a tough time for you and your Mom.

I'll be sending prayers, sir.

Harry
 

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I helped care for my ex-mother-in-law for the past three years. My ex is an only child and it was tough enough for the two of us. Prayers said. If there's anything l can do locally, don't hesitate to ask.
 

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Thanks everyone, cleared to travel north next week.
As they say, I will do my best to keep a stiff upper lip.
 

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Hang in there. That's a whole lot of stuff. I'm wishing for you safe travels, strength and endurance.
 

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Echoing everyone else's sentiments...praying for you and your mom...sincere condolences...
 
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