Got Any Skeletons in the Family Closet?

adorshki

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My aunt, who's been doing some family genealogy, sent me this pic titled "Your grandma, circa 1919??"
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I s--t you not.

Lesseee...predates Bonnie Parker by about a dozen years....suspect the uniform's daddy's own genuine items.
By the time I met her she was a schoolmarm, true story. :ROFLMAO:

Now that I think about it, she always was a bit of a disciplinarian.

And I can just hear the mods thinking: "Finally. That explains a lot. The boy's got rebellious genes."
 

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And I can just hear the mods thinking: "Finally. That explains a lot. The boy's got rebellious genes."

The mods might if they could see the image. In this case the link is to something inside a Google mailbox and people need to be logged in to view it. You might save the image from your mail to your computer and then upload it from there to LTG or get the image into Google Drive or Photos, set permissions, and share from there.
 

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Nice try! Bu if there were skeletons in the family closet, no way would I post them on the internet, of all places.

And — "this pic"? What pic?
 

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No skeletons. We're squeaky clean ... as far as I know. 😁

Looking forward to being able to see the pic of your grandma.
 

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My great, great, great, great, great,great, great grandfather fled Scotland and came to the "New World" in 1746 to avoid the hangman's noose.

My great, great grandfather served on both sides of the Civil War: Confederate Army and then Union Navy. After his capture, he was given a choice between internment at Camp Douglas (the "Union Andersonville" near Chicago) and serving in the Union Navy. Being a pragmatist, he chose the latter. Given the conditions in Civil War POW camps, I might not have been here to post this had he chosen differently. He was probably offered these alternatives because he had medical training.
 

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My great, great grandfather served on both sides of the Civil War: Confederate Army and then Union Navy. After his capture, he was given a choice between internment at Camp Douglas (the "Union Andersonville" near Chicago) and serving in the Union Navy. Being a pragmatist, he chose the latter. Given the conditions in Civil War POW camps, I might not have been here to post this had he chosen differently. He was probably offered these alternatives because he had medical training.

There were about/at least 5.600 Confederate prisoners of war who enlisted in Union service rather than remain in a prison camp or be exchanged or paroled or otherwise have to return to Confederate service. For the most part these soldiers served in the Union Navy or Union infantry or cavalry regiments that were "dealing with" the indigenous people. The options and motivations varied over the war years which is why I am not being more specific. "Galvanized Yankee" is one term that that will lead the curious down the rabbit hole.
 

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here were about/at least 5.600 Confederate prisoners of war who enlisted in Union service rather than remain in a prison camp or be exchanged or paroled or otherwise have to return to Confederate service. For the most part these soldiers served in the Union Navy or Union infantry or cavalry regiments that were "dealing with" the indigenous people.

He was from Missouri, a "border state". Both sides recruited heavily from there and I'm sure there were lots of divided families and shattered friendships as a result. Makes sense that the "recruited prisoners" would be employed to "deal with the indigenous people" since Missouri was still pretty much a frontier area. Whatever else may have been right or wrong about that, sending prisoners recruited from the "other side" to fight "Indians" would've tested their "new-found loyalty" less than sending them against their former comrades-in-arms.

The legacy of "Bloody" Bill Anderson, the Centralia Massacre and other brutal happenings perpetrated by both sides probably only further inflamed such bitterness.
 
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I have a couple that I can think of off hand.

The first is my 6th ggf on my mother’s side. After serving in the Providence County militia during the American Revolution, his grisly demise was notable enough to be recorded in the History of Marlborough, New Hampshire, published in 1881:
Joseph Follet came from Cumberland, Rhode Island in 1780. He located near the granite quarry and on the the spot where A.G. Mann's boarding-house now stands. He was a very intemperate man, and when under the influence of liquor was so abusive to his family they were frequently obliged to flee his presence for their own safety. Nov 1, 1806 he returned to his home so intoxicated that his wife, feeling that her life was in danger, took refuge in the chamber, drawing the ladder up after her, leaving him sitting before the fire. In the morning, she was horrified to find her husband lying in the fireplace with his head burned off. After the death of Mr. Follet, his widow lived alone for several years, with the exception of a small dog for company, when her son Silas came and took her to his home in Thetford, Vermont, where she died at an advanced age. Four children are listed: Silas, Sybel, Benjamin and Otis.
Joseph died in 1806.

The second character is my 2nd ggf (also on my mother’s side), Abel Boothroyd. Born in Yorkshire, England, he married Jane Heppleston, also from Yorkshire, and had one child, Lucy. Shortly after his daughter’s birth, Abel emigrated to the United States, settling in Providence, Rhode Island. Jane would follow when Lucy Jane was old enough to travel. But when Jane and their daughter arrived in Providence in 1882, Abel was nowhere to be found. The family believed he had gone West seeking adventure.
It took me awhile to figure out what happened to him, but I finally caught a clue and unraveled the full story.
His name popped up in a record in North Dakota, attesting for a Mrs. Eden Scholes. Their names kept on entwining and even though a census record shows her married to a “James A. Day“, a marriage certificate shows her husband as Abel Boothroyd. When he abondoned Jane and Lucy he assumed the name James A. Day, except for some official documents. Newspaper mentions from North Dakota read James Day, but in estate notices after Eden passed on, she is listed as Mrs. Day, AKA Mrs. Boothroyd.
 

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I wish I had some nefarious characters in the family I could mention, but alas, I don't. There were some in the wife's family however. One was a paranoid/schizophrenic, another is a hoarder. Her one grandfather was a drunk. Another aunt was weird.
 

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Often, people are affected by circumstances beyond their control.

My father's ancestors were on an immigrant ship leaving the old country for New York City.
The year was 1813.
The ship was intercepted by the British navy and diverted into Halifax. The family is still in Nova Scotia.
 

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My 5th ggf on my mother’s side came from Scotland to New England in 1719. One of his sons fought in the Revolution … for the wrong side, they were British loyalists. After the war they all moved to Canada. Later my Mother's father came down from Canada, joined the US Army and fought in the Spanish-American War.
 
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My mom was awful and mean. My dad was okay/abusive physically. So my mom's parents were lovely. And so nice, although a little aloof. WTF happened?? So what happened so many years before... that has no interest to me. Isn't life funny?? But they allowed me to have horses.... and THAT improved my life greatly!! So from hideousness, comes.... a revelation I'd say..... sometimes you learn more from a bad example as from a good one, yeah??

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Wouldn't that make you reevaluate your life?? Some? Yeah....

It was so funny when I was 16 and had just got my license and qualified for the junior nationals at Santa Barbara..... and I showed up in the El Camino and horse trailer with my horse and the parents were like, "Tom, how'd you get here?" Uhmmm, in the truck with the trailer. "Where are your parents?" Uhmmm, my mom is at home doing a crossword puzzle and my dad is probably at work."

Honestly they were shocked!! "You're here by yourself??" Uhmmm yeah... how else would I be here? They all looked sad, but if you knew my parents.... you'd be smiling like me!!!

I'm FREE!!

I'm free.... <3

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